When You Realize You Don’t Love What You Made

One of the hardest parts of being a designer isn't creating something new. It's admitting that something you already created isn't your best work anymore.

That happened to me recently with my Black and White wedding invitation collection.

The Decision I Kept Avoiding

The design itself wasn't the problem. The typography and the motif were. From the very beginning, there was something about the title font and the visual motif that never quite sat right with me. I convinced myself it was fine. After all, the collection was finished. It was on my website. It was listed on Etsy. I'd created Pinterest graphics, Instagram posts, blog images, and product photography around it.

Changing it meant changing everything.

So I didn't. Not at first.

Here's the part I think a lot of creatives will recognize. If you don't love something you made, chances are you didn't love it from the very beginning. You just talked yourself into it. You told yourself it was good enough, that you were being too picky, that no one else would notice what was bothering you. And for a while, that story works. You're busy. The collection is live. There are other things to design.

The Moment Pinterest Changed Everything

Then one day I opened Pinterest and saw all of those pins together in one place.

That was the moment it stopped being one small doubt tucked away in the back of my mind and became something impossible to ignore. Instead of seeing a finished, polished collection, I saw the same thing repeated over and over. A decision I knew, deep down, I had never fully loved. Multiplied across dozens of pins, the thing that quietly bothered me suddenly felt loud.

That's the moment every designer eventually faces. You can ignore it, because you've already invested the time. Or you can start over.

I chose to start over.

Choosing to Start Over

The funny thing is that redesigning wasn't difficult. The new typography and motif came together quickly. As soon as I saw it, I knew it was the collection I had wanted all along. Suddenly the invitations felt more elegant, more confident, and more in line with what Patti and Hank has become over the past several months.

Now I'm replacing every version of that collection. On the website. On Etsy. On Pinterest. And everywhere else it appears. It's a lot of work. But good design isn't about protecting old decisions. It's about making better ones.

Why Redesigning Isn't Wasted Work

I think many creatives experience this. We often know something isn't quite right long before we're willing to admit it. We hope that if enough time passes, we'll learn to love it anyway. Usually we don't. Instead, our eye continues to develop. We learn. We grow. We notice details we couldn't see when we first created the work.

That's not failure. That's experience.

Some people see redesigning as wasted effort, because "the old one was good enough." I see it differently. Every revision is evidence that I'm becoming a better designer than I was yesterday. The Black and White collection isn't just a new version of an old design. It's a reflection of everything I've learned since I first created it.

What Changed Since I Made the Update

There's something else I've noticed since making the change. I'm happier every time I look at it. That sounds like a small thing, but it isn't. When you run your own brand, you look at your own work constantly. You see it in your product photos, your Pinterest feed, your emails, your own website. If something about it has always bothered you, that feeling doesn't go away just because you're busy. It just sits there quietly, in the back of every post you make. Fixing it doesn't just make the collection better. It changes how it feels to show up in your own business every day.

If you're a designer, or really any kind of creative, sitting with that same quiet discomfort about something you made, I'd say trust it. You probably knew before you finished it. You just weren't ready to start over yet.

And if, years from now, I look at today's version and know I can make it even better, I'll probably redesign it again. Because great design isn't about reaching perfection. It's about never stopping the pursuit of it.


Frequently Asked Questions

Usually the feeling shows up long before you're willing to admit it. If you catch yourself explaining away a detail rather than loving it, or if seeing your own work repeated across your website, Etsy, or Pinterest makes you wince instead of feel proud, that's a strong sign it's time to revisit it.

Not if the new version is genuinely stronger. The original time wasn't wasted since it's what taught you what wasn't working. Every revision reflects real growth in your eye and your skill, and a collection that better represents your brand is worth more than one you settle for.

The typography and the visual motif were updated. The color palette and the collection's core concept stayed the same, but the new title lettering and motif feel more elegant and more in line with where Patti & Hank has grown over the past several months.

In this case, once the new direction was clear, the redesign itself came together quickly. The harder and more time-consuming part is the rollout: replacing every version of the old design across the website, Etsy, Pinterest, and any other place it appears.


Good design keeps evolving. So did this one.

Shop the newly redesigned Black and White collection.

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About the Author | Patti Meyer

Patti Meyer is the founder and designer behind Patti & Hank. With more than 25 years of experience in graphic design and stationery, she creates timeless wedding invitation collections inspired by history, gardens, elegant typography, and heirloom traditions. Through her articles and free wedding planning guides, Patti helps couples navigate every step of the invitation process with confidence and style.